Your Real-Life Superhero

One of the ways we hear a lot to improve ourselves is to have idols to emulate.

But wait! Don’t try to be somebody else. Just be yourself and be great.

Don’t get me wrong. It’s not bad to have idols. In fact, I do have idols and I also encourage you to have one. It is true that one of the ways to improve yourself is to have someone you can emulate, someone you can pattern your life from.

True enough. We can pave our way to success by finding an idol – someone who has already achieved what we want to achieve. Then study what he has been doing and take action to follow the road he/she has taken to get into the summit he/she is now on.

Before deciding to choose your idol, however, you need first to define who you are, what you want to become, what you want to share to the world.

As Chin-Ning Chu said, “A successful life is one that is lived through understanding and pursuing one’s own path, not chasing after the dreams of others.”

Picking an idol and emulating him or her without starting from who you are deep within may be counterproductive. You might start chasing after the dreams of others and not those of you. Eventually, you might end nowhere.

Robert Southey shares, “Ambition is an idol, on whose wings great minds are carried only to extreme; to be sublimely great or to be nothing.”

If we start from ourselves, this may lead to something sublimely great.

But if we start from idols – just because they are famous – without starting from ourselves, this may result to nothing.

I, too, have idols. But why do I say – “Don’t try to be somebody else; just be yourself and be great.”?

It is because your real-life superhero is you yourself. You may be influenced by people around you, but you yourself can take the action. You yourself can make the move. You yourself can live your life.

Be guided.

Published by Chris Dao-anis

I help Filipino coaches, trainers & speakers deliver impactful presentations and write books to further reach and credibility.

2 thoughts on “Your Real-Life Superhero

  1. Hi Chris,

    Awesome! I would like to add on your statement:

    “Before deciding to choose your idol, however, you need first to define who you are, what you want to become, what you want to share to the world.”

    I believe that is the first step in becoming the superhero for yourself – to decide what you want in life.

    Then the powerful formula once you decide what you want to become is the power of association.

    Generally, that would be to hang out with those people who have passion similar with yours. By hanging around and associating with successful people ahead of you, you can emulate their tested formulas and you can innovate them with your inclinations.

    Nice post! Keep coming, I think I would have to add my views too on my blog soon.

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